Last Updated on August 14, 2026 by Ina Geißler
When you’re traveling long-haul as a family, the time of your flight can change the entire journey. A ten-hour day flight with kids means many hours to fill, while an overnight flight gives everyone at least the chance to sleep through part of the journey.
We personally prefer night flights with kids, especially on long-haul routes. But that doesn’t automatically make them the better option for every family – and quite often, you don’t really get to choose between a day and night flight anyway. So, day flight vs night flight with kids: which is better? We’ve done both many times, and there are advantages and disadvantages to each.
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I’m Ina, a family travel writer from Germany and a mom of four. We’ve taken numerous flights with our children since they were babies, including many long-haul journeys to the US and Asia. You’ll find more of our first-hand experience, airline reviews and practical tips for flying with kids in our air travel hub.
Day or night flight with kids? You often don’t get to choose
- 1. Day or night flight with kids? You often don’t get to choose
- 2. Day flights with kids: advantages and disadvantages
- 3. Night flights with kids: advantages and disadvantages
- 4. How to choose between a day and night flight with kids
- 5. Tips for a day flight with kids
- 6. Tips for a night flight with kids
- 7. Choosing the right airline for a day or night flight
- 8. Day flight vs night flight with kids: our verdict
- 9. Frequently asked questions about day and night flights with kids
Before comparing which option is easier with children, there’s an important point that often gets overlooked:
Your route may already decide whether you’ll be flying during the day or overnight.
This is particularly obvious on transatlantic flights. When we fly from Europe to the US, we typically leave in the morning or around midday and arrive in the US later that same day. On the way back, it’s usually completely different: we leave the US in the afternoon or evening, fly through the night and arrive in Europe the following morning.
Flight time isn’t the only part of family air travel where your route may limit your options. The same is true when choosing between a nonstop flight and a connection: many destinations simply can’t be reached directly. If you’re currently comparing different itineraries, our direct flight vs connecting flight with kids guide explains when a connection can actually be the better choice for a family – and what to consider before booking.
Why long-haul flights are scheduled this way
Time zones play a major role. Flying west from Europe to North America, you’re moving into earlier time zones. A flight can take nine or ten hours while only a few hours pass on the local clock between departure and arrival. This makes daytime departures from Europe and afternoon arrivals in North America practical for both airlines and passengers.
Flying east from North America to Europe works the other way around. You lose several hours because of the time difference, which is why an afternoon or evening departure quickly turns into a morning arrival in Europe. Much of the actual flight therefore takes place overnight.
-> Everything you need to know before a flight tu Europe with kids
But flight direction isn’t the only reason. Airlines also have to build their schedules around:
- airport slots
- connecting flights
- aircraft utilization
- and local operating restrictions.
Some airports restrict or prohibit certain nighttime departures and landings, which can further influence when long-haul flights need to leave. This is why I wouldn’t plan a family trip around the idea that you absolutely need a day flight or night flight with kids. Check what actually exists on your route first. If there is a genuine choice, then it becomes worth considering which flight time fits your children and their sleep habits better.

Day flights with kids: advantages and disadvantages
A day flight can be the easier option for children who simply don’t sleep well on planes. Instead of expecting them to somehow turn an airplane seat into a bed, you travel while they’re naturally awake and let them spend the following night sleeping properly once you’ve arrived.
That can be a considerable advantage, especially with younger children who need a quiet environment, their usual sleeping position or simply more space to settle down.
You don’t have to rely on your children sleeping on the plane
One of the biggest uncertainties of a night flight with kids is sleep. You can bring a neck pillow, choose the perfect seats and time everything around their normal bedtime, but you still can’t make a child sleep.
With a day flight, that pressure disappears. Children can watch movies, play games, eat, read or listen to something without you constantly wondering whether they should be asleep by now.
And being on a day flight doesn’t mean nobody can sleep. An early start, the excitement of traveling and several hours in an aircraft can make children tired anyway. If they nap for an hour or two along the way, that’s a bonus rather than something the entire travel day depends on.
A proper night in a bed can make arrival easier
Depending on your route and arrival time, a day flight may allow you to reach your destination in the evening and go to bed at a relatively normal time.
For children who struggle to sleep sitting upright or wake up whenever there is movement around them, that can be much easier than arriving after a night of fragmented airplane sleep. They may have spent the day traveling, but at least the night itself can be used for proper rest.
This is one of the main reasons why I wouldn’t automatically recommend a night flight to every family. How well your children (and you!) actually sleep on planes matters far more than how appealing an overnight flight looks when you’re booking it.
The downside: a day flight can feel very long
This is the part we personally find hardest about daytime long-haul flights. Ten hours is a long time to keep children occupied in a confined space.
Good inflight entertainment makes an enormous difference on a long-haul flight, but even movies, games, snacks and activities eventually lose their appeal. On longer short- and medium-haul flights without seatback entertainment, those hours can feel even longer because you need to provide much more of the entertainment yourself.
A day flight also uses up a substantial part of the day. Instead of sleeping through several hours of your journey, you’re awake for almost all of it. By the time you factor in getting to the airport, check-in, the flight itself, immigration, baggage claim and the journey to your accommodation, traveling can easily become the only thing you do that day.
For us, that’s the biggest disadvantage when comparing a day flight vs night flight with kids: the flight doesn’t necessarily take any longer, but it can certainly feel that way.

Night flights with kids: advantages and disadvantages
We personally prefer night flights, particularly when we’re traveling long-haul. It isn’t because our children magically sleep for ten hours as soon as the aircraft takes off. What makes the difference for us is the atmosphere onboard and the fact that several hours of the journey happen while everyone is naturally winding down.
The whole cabin settles into a nighttime rhythm
On an overnight flight, the crew and aircraft itself help create a sense of night. After the main meal service, window shades are usually closed, the cabin lights are dimmed and the crew keeps the environment quieter. Conversations become softer, fewer people move around and entertainment screens gradually disappear as passengers try to sleep.
We find that our children respond to this atmosphere too. Even if they don’t sleep as long or as deeply as they would at home, there is much less expectation that they need to be entertained continuously.
That quieter rhythm makes a long flight feel shorter to us. A few hours of eating, watching a movie and getting settled followed by several hours of resting or sleeping simply feels very different from filling ten waking hours during a day flight.
You arrive with the first day of your trip ahead of you
Another reason we like overnight flights is the arrival. On many routes, you leave in the afternoon or evening, spend the night traveling and arrive the following morning.
Of course, that first day shouldn’t necessarily be packed with sightseeing. Everyone may be tired, particularly if nobody slept particularly well. But being at your destination in the morning gives you the opportunity to start adjusting to local time immediately.
We try to get outside, move around, eat according to the new local schedule and stay awake until a reasonable bedtime rather than treating the entire arrival day as an extension of the night. This is also where managing jet lag becomes part of the journey.
-> I’ve included our practical strategies for adjusting after long-haul travel in our long-haul flight with kids guide.
The biggest disadvantage is obvious if you can’t sleep on a plane
A night flight only feels shorter if you manage to get some rest. For children and adults who simply cannot sleep on a plane sitting up, an overnight journey can be exhausting.
Instead of having a long travel day followed by a normal night in a bed, the travel day effectively continues through the night and into the following morning. Even a ten-hour flight can feel endless when everyone around you is sleeping and you’re watching the remaining flight time tick down.
This can be particularly difficult for children who need darkness, silence or plenty of space to sleep. Aircraft cabins become quieter overnight, but they’re never truly quiet. There are announcements, other passengers, meal services, turbulence and the unfamiliar sleeping position to contend with.
That’s why our preference for night flights isn’t a recommendation that every family should automatically choose one. If you already know that your child rarely sleeps anywhere except in a bed, a convenient day flight may result in a much easier start to your vacation.
An early arrival can also make the first day difficult
Arriving in the morning sounds perfect until you realize that your accommodation may not be available for another six hours. If everyone has slept badly on the plane, spending the morning tired with your luggage while waiting for check-in can make that first day considerably less appealing.
It becomes even more exhausting if the airport isn’t your final destination. Immigration, collecting luggage and then continuing for several hours by train, rental car or another flight after a sleepless night can turn an early arrival into a very long travel day.
Arrival time is therefore something we always consider when comparing a day flight vs night flight with kids. A morning arrival can be wonderful when you have an easy transfer and somewhere to leave your luggage, but it isn’t automatically an advantage.
The opposite can be just as inconvenient. Landing late at night may mean navigating an unfamiliar airport, collecting luggage, picking up a rental car or finding your accommodation when everyone is already exhausted. When we compare flights, we therefore don’t only look at when they depart – we pay just as much attention to what the arrival time means for the rest of our journey.

How to choose between a day and night flight with kids
If your route actually gives you a choice, I wouldn’t decide based on departure time alone. The better question is what the entire travel day will look like for your family, from leaving home to reaching your accommodation. It’s not night flight vs day flight, but about what works best for your family.
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Think about how well your child sleeps away from home
Your child’s normal sleep habits are probably the most important factor. A child who regularly falls asleep in the car, stroller or on public transportation has a much better chance of getting some rest on a night flight than a child who already struggles to sleep anywhere except their own bed.
Age matters as well, but not always in the way you might expect. Babies can sleep surprisingly well through the background noise of an aircraft, while toddlers may find everything far too exciting to even consider closing their eyes. Older children and teenagers can often settle down with a movie and eventually fall asleep without much help.
Rather than assuming your children will sleep because the flight takes place at night, think realistically about how they usually react to unfamiliar sleeping environments.
Look at departure and arrival times together
An 8 p.m. departure may initially look much more appealing than an 8 a.m. flight, but the arrival time can completely change that calculation.
We always look at what happens after landing. Can we go straight to our accommodation? Will we have to wait several hours for check-in? Is there another flight, train journey or long drive ahead of us? And how difficult will that feel if nobody has slept properly?
The same applies before departure. A very early day flight may require getting children out of bed in the middle of the night, while a late-night departure can leave an overtired toddler waiting at the airport long past their normal bedtime.
The best flight time with kids is therefore rarely just about the hours you spend in the air. It is about where those hours sit within the entire journey.
Flight time is one factor in our booking decision, not something we’ll prioritize at any price. If our preferred night flight costs significantly more for the whole family, has an inconvenient connection or creates a much longer journey, we’ll happily take the day flight instead.
The same applies the other way around. We may prefer night flights, but we won’t build an unnecessarily complicated itinerary simply to get one. When traveling with children, there are already enough variables you can’t control. We choose the itinerary that makes the most sense overall and adapt to the flight schedule we end up with.

Tips for a day flight with kids
The main challenge of a long day flight is keeping children occupied without arriving at your destination completely exhausted from entertaining them. We don’t try to schedule every hour. Instead, we bring a mix of familiar things and a few surprises and let the day develop.
- Pack plenty of snacks. Even when meals are included, having familiar snacks available can bridge long gaps between services and help when your child doesn’t like the onboard meal.
- Download entertainment before leaving home. Movies, series, audiobooks, music and games are useful even on aircraft with seatback entertainment, particularly if the system isn’t working or doesn’t have much your child enjoys.
- Bring headphones your child is comfortable wearing. Airline headphones aren’t always a good fit for smaller children.
- Pack sticker books, coloring books or activity books. Choose things that don’t require dozens of tiny pieces that will disappear underneath the seats.
- Bring books or magazines your child already enjoys rather than filling the bag entirely with unfamiliar activities.
- Add one small new toy or activity. We’ve found that something the child chose at the airport or a little surprise we’ve secretly packed can buy a surprising amount of happy entertainment time.
- Small fidget toys can be useful when children need something to do with their hands. Keep them simple, quiet and easy to retrieve if dropped.
- Get up and move when it’s safe. A walk to the bathroom or a few minutes standing and stretching can break up a long stretch in the seat.
- Don’t use everything during the first two hours. Keep a few activities and snacks back for the point when everyone has genuinely had enough of being on the plane.
If you’re looking for age-specific ideas, our flying with kids age by age guide: What really helps covers what works for babies, toddlers, school-age children and teens – including entertainment, sleep and practical tips for each stage.

Tips for a night flight with kids
For an overnight flight, our goal is almost the opposite. Instead of bringing endless entertainment, we try to make the seat as comfortable as possible and help the children recognize that this part of the journey is meant for resting.
- Dress children in soft, comfortable layers. We avoid anything restrictive and bring an extra layer because aircraft cabins can feel surprisingly cool overnight.
- Bring a familiar comfort item if your child uses one at home, such as a small blanket or cuddly toy.
- Pack a comfortable travel pillow or neck pillow that actually works for your child’s size rather than relying entirely on the small airline pillow.
- Keep toothbrushes and a few bedtime essentials accessible. Following a shortened version of the normal bedtime routine can help signal that it’s time to settle down.
- Let the cabin atmosphere do some of the work. Once dinner is finished, the lights are dimmed and the cabin becomes quieter, we reduce screens and activities too.
- An eye mask can help older children and teenagers, particularly when other passengers are still using reading lights or screens.
- Consider a footrest, inflatable travel cushion or children’s airplane seat hammock if your child sleeps more comfortably with their legs supported but…
- check your airline’s rules before bringing any sleep accessory. Inflatable seat extenders, hammocks and other products attached to the seat or placed in the footwell aren’t permitted by every airline, and they may be prohibited during taxi, takeoff and landing or altogether.
- Keep anything you’ll need during the night within easy reach. Digging through the overhead bin for a water bottle, medication or a child’s favorite toy at 2 a.m. is something we’d rather avoid.
- Don’t expect perfect sleep. Even a few hours of rest can make a night flight feel much shorter, and putting pressure on everyone to sleep rarely makes the journey easier.
For both day and night flights, I’d keep the essentials in your carry-on rather than trying to optimize every minute of the journey. Children don’t need to be entertained continuously, and they don’t need to sleep perfectly either. The aim is simply to make the hours onboard as comfortable and manageable as possible.

Choosing the right airline for a day or night flight
The airline itself can make a noticeable difference, especially on a long-haul day or night flight. Seat comfort, inflight entertainment, meal times and cabin service all influence how easily children stay occupied during the day or settle down when it’s time to sleep.
We’ve flown long-haul with several different airlines as a family, and our airline reviews cover the things we actually want to know when traveling with children – from seating and entertainment to meals, baggage and the overall onboard experience.
Our family airline reviews:
If you’re still comparing carriers, our best airlines for families guide brings together our experiences with different airlines and explains which ones we’d choose for different types of family trips.
Day flight vs night flight with kids: our verdict
If we genuinely have the choice, we usually prefer a night flight with children, particularly on long-haul routes. The quieter cabin, dimmed lights and natural nighttime rhythm help us settle down, and even a few hours of sleep make a long flight feel considerably shorter.
But that’s our family. A child who can’t sleep on a plane may be much happier on a day flight, especially if the schedule allows for a normal night in a proper bed after arrival.
More importantly, we’ve learned not to make the perfect flight time a requirement when planning a trip. Routes, schedules and prices often make the decision for us, and there are destinations where choosing between a day flight and a night flight simply isn’t realistic.
We therefore look at the journey we’re actually being offered: departure and arrival times, total travel time, connections, price and what we’ll need to do after landing. If the best overall itinerary happens to be a day flight, we’ll prepare for a long day onboard. If it’s a night flight, we’ll make ourselves as comfortable as possible and hope everyone gets some sleep.
After years of flying with four children, that’s probably the most useful lesson we’ve learned anyway: you can’t control every part of a travel day. Being prepared, keeping your expectations realistic and adapting to the journey you actually have often matters more than finding the supposedly perfect flight.

Frequently asked questions about day and night flights with kids
Is a day or night flight better with kids?
There isn’t one option that’s better for every family. We personally prefer night flights, especially for long-haul travel, because the quieter cabin and opportunity to sleep make the journey feel shorter. If your child struggles to sleep on planes, however, a day flight followed by a proper night in a bed may be much easier.
Are night flights better for toddlers?
They can be, particularly if your toddler sleeps easily in unfamiliar places. The dimmed cabin and quieter atmosphere can help, but toddlers who need their usual bed or plenty of space to sleep may find an overnight flight difficult. Don’t assume that booking during your child’s normal bedtime guarantees they’ll sleep.
How do you get kids to sleep on a night flight?
We try to keep things as close to bedtime as realistically possible: comfortable clothes, a familiar cuddly toy or blanket, a travel pillow and a shortened bedtime routine. Once the cabin lights are dimmed, we reduce entertainment and let the quieter atmosphere help everyone settle down. Most importantly, we don’t expect airplane sleep to look exactly like sleep at home.
What should I pack for a long day flight with kids?
Bring familiar snacks, comfortable headphones, downloaded movies or games and a few screen-free activities such as sticker books, coloring books or small fidget toys. We also like packing one new activity or small surprise and saving it until later in the flight rather than giving children everything immediately after takeoff.
Do night flights help with jet lag?
A night flight can help you start adjusting to your destination’s schedule, but it doesn’t automatically prevent jet lag. How much you sleep onboard, the number of time zones you cross and your arrival time all matter. After landing, getting daylight and beginning to eat and sleep according to local time can help your body adjust.

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